If you are reading this blog, it is obvious that I have caught your attention. Well that is a good
thing! Yes, Love is War, Love is a War I should say.
Women are the most sensual beautiful creatures on this earth. They also can be the most deceptive creatures as well. Of course a female answering this blog should have an opposite opinon, but that is biased. Again women are so pretty and fun when they are in your arms, but the moment they pull away and gain that "poontang power" most men will grovel and succumb
to their every whim. Strong men will not accept bad behavior and let theses lovely creatures know that this behavior is not acceptable, make some changes or, I leave for a week or two.
If she says, "go ahead and leave" just do it and say bye do not call her, email, or text her...zippo...got it?
What is love anyway. My daddy use to call it a four letter word between two dam fools!
I now see his viewpoint approaching the "big 50." You hold hands, hug, and laugh for a few weeks to a month and then bam, she doesn't hold your hand , when you shop she is behind or ahead of you laughing on the cell phone, and when you go to the movies she pulls her hand away as you try to show your; "LOVE." What in the hell is this affection all about? It is more work sometimes than designing the space shuttle. The pain it causes when she leaves. Yes men they leave us, we do not leave them....that poontang has a grasp on our souls!
How do you beat her? You really can! It is so easy. IGNORE her. Act like you could care less
if the two of you go out on a Friday night. Don't attempt to hold her hand, kiss her, or shower
her with gifts. Just act as a friend to her...nothing else. How often do you do this this? Everytme
you go out with her...every single freaking time! It drives them crazy. If she wants to hold
your hand then go ahead...but then push her away for a moment...she will want you more.
I dated a woman for four months. I tried to kiss her...zero response. We held hands and
hugged at first, but again that; "poontang power," was overwhelming. She said; "I will kiss you when I am sure you are the guy to marry me." Ok, I got mad at her she broke up with me and that really sucked getting dumped after four months of no physical contact or did it? I learned from that experience. How?,you ask! Let her decide when to make the move. If she won't kiss you for months so what. You date other women that give you the poontang and keep her
as a future wife. Why fight a woman? It is pointless...you are going to lose!
You do not have to become a doormat to women. I was with her. I'm sure I was with other women in my life. Why? Because of that "sweet poontang! Think about my logic. You act casual and non chalant with a woman...she will wonder why? She will be thinking..."man my shit does not stink and this guy only wants to chat?"She will fall for you eventually. The guy that is all over her physically and she likes that will eventually lose. He will suffer the whys and why nots of LOVE! What is fast ends fast!
Always keep a clean car or truck. Look GQ when you go out. Don't belive any women
that say you it is ok to be in jeans. Some from the sticks maybe, but overall women want
a man that looks clean, great style, nice haircut, polished nails. He exudes confidence! Your
girl will never leave you if you show her the confident I don't care attitude. That is not to say
you treat her badly, but if she wants to be a bitch all the time, drop her let her know
that it's time to stop and act like a lady. If she ignores you when you meet up and acts casual...
you act twice as cool...she will see that you will not put up with her bs.
If you lost your girl like I did, don't sweat the small stuff. It's ok to mourn and be sad for
a few days, week, or, a month, but just get big in your mind and body. Develop those muscles,
get that haircut, buy some good clothes. If you really love her, let her go man, let her be.
When she does eventually call you, oh yes she will, I know from my past 99% of my ladies
called me after they broke up with me. Why? NO CONTACT. Just go on with your life. Speak to her as a lost friend. Let her do the meeting...never ask her out. Let her meet on your terms.
Be her best friend when you do go out...she will melt in your arms eventually. But, remember,
find another girl as well. She dumped you...she can do it again...if she does...oh well...if not then
marry her...treat her as a friend during the marriage...the sex will be better...don't "cling"
to her...let her be...if men get five good days out of the month we have won a big WAR.
Again LOVE IS A WAR. Thank you for reading my blog!
